tep
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Post by tep on Feb 23, 2004 22:57:09 GMT -5
meron pa nga ba  |
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Weird_O
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Post by Weird_O on Feb 24, 2004 2:14:32 GMT -5
;D syempre... cguro tatanong mo lang dapat e, matagal o madaling tagal na courtship...  |
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Post by JoJoCrisologo on Feb 25, 2004 6:41:21 GMT -5
 .. sa panahon ngayon na parang di na dapat tayo mag-aksaya ng panahon, telling someone that you love her is like eating instant noodles... mabilisan na.. Di man natin mapansin na me naliligaw pa ba o wala na, ang mahala na lang dyan, kung matagal mo mapaninindigan ang pagmamahal mo sa kanya... ;D
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Post by Weird_O on Feb 26, 2004 1:26:27 GMT -5
kaya nga siguro minsan, di rin halos magtagal ang pagkakatipanan... when I think about it, courtship makes sense... it has its own advantages, like really proving your worth dun sa relationship... parang investment mo yun e, mas lalo mo pahahalagahan... na you really wanted this person to be with so you'll spend a whole lota time, money, and sleep over this person... and the result would be the same, only sweeter because you've finally made it through the test...  |
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Post by tep on Mar 1, 2004 3:29:10 GMT -5
very well said  kaya nga kahit na modern na daw tayong mga kabataan ngayon... gusto pa dn syempre ng mga girls na may courtship... minsan kasi hindi mo na madifferentiate ang courtship sa flirtation... yung tipong nagpaparamdam or nagpapahaging na pla ng feelings yung tao... kasi naman dapat if you have feelings sa isang tao... sincere mong maipapakita sa kanya yun... hindi naman hinihingi yung seryosong pagliligawan na tipong pagsisibak mo pa ng kahoy or pag iigib mo pa yung girl... SINCERITY para malaman ng girl na mahal mo talaga sya... |
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Post by posh on Mar 5, 2004 8:08:20 GMT -5
hmmm para sakin.. meron pa.. hehe..
tama nga.. n ang tanong n lng is gano katagal..
pero d rn naman pdeng sukatin dun un..
e kung talagang mahal nyo naman ang isat isa db bakit nyo pa papahirapan sarili nyo..
pero un lng ang problema minsan.. mas sweet and mas nafifeel ng girls n super duper extra ;D special sla pag nagliligawan p lng.. pero pag kau na.. sweet n lng and special ka na lng.. hahaha..
may sense ba sinabi ko.. hahaha..
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Post by JoJoCrisologo on Mar 6, 2004 5:30:44 GMT -5
hmmm para sakin.. meron pa.. hehe.. tama nga.. n ang tanong n lng is gano katagal.. pero d rn naman pdeng sukatin dun un.. e kung talagang mahal nyo naman ang isat isa db bakit nyo pa papahirapan sarili nyo.. pero un lng ang problema minsan.. mas sweet and mas nafifeel ng girls n super duper extra ;D special sla pag nagliligawan p lng.. pero pag kau na.. sweet n lng and special ka na lng.. hahaha.. may sense ba sinabi ko.. hahaha.. .. punong-puno ng sense.. hehehe.. |
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Post by .::Rajo::. on Mar 22, 2004 3:00:13 GMT -5
;D posh, nagpaligaw ka ba kay louie? O kaw ang nanligaw? ;D Nagtatanong lang po.
Pede ba ito, reversed. Girls do the courtship? Isn't this a little agressive? I know in other countries it was a norm... but here I don't think the culture could take it. Pero since I raised the question, how would you feel like if you girls are going to do the courtship and the guys would be the nililigawan? ;D
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Post by irresistible on Mar 22, 2004 5:01:09 GMT -5
mga gurls ang manliligaw?! yaiks!! a BIG No-No. parang reversing the order of the universe.. defying the laws of chemistry & physics.. LOLz.. i think it's better to stick with the "principle of design"; men to initiate & women to respond. hmmm... take the example of the first couple (adam & eve in the garden, when women make the first move): she enticed him to eat that forbidden fruit.. and what happened? Let history speak for itself.  |
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Post by Weird_O on Mar 23, 2004 0:45:15 GMT -5
Adam shared with the booties... ? ;D Well, courting is a process on which people of the opposite sex engage in a ritual performed since the beginning of time. Mating.  Although ours are refined or civilized compared to primates and or other animals the basic rule of nature still exists. Men/Male gets to take the first step. That's the law of nature, it cannot be broken. Unless... you've heard about the praying mantis. The insect who chops the head off of her mating partner after copulating. Actually in some species of this thing, it is obligatory to have his head cut off before copulating. Creepy! Ok, on topic. Although it is a given that the male mantis initiates the mating process, it is the female who really takes over. Which now am sure am lost to what am trying to say... ;D |
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Post by dobby on Mar 23, 2004 2:59:49 GMT -5
ako din wlang naintindhan sa sinabi mo english kasi pakitagalog naman... ;D
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Pede ba ito, reversed. Girls do the courtship? Isn't this a little agressive? I know in other countries it was a norm... but here I don't think the culture could take it.
some girls are doing ds agressive thing... yun nga lang in a way na hindi naman sila masyadong magmumukhang cheap dba... pero meron iba talagang bulgaran na..heheh...
type nyo din bang binibigyan kayo ng mga flowers?
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i think it's better to stick with the "principle of design"; men to initiate & women to respond....
because as Rajo said "but here I don't think the culture could take it".... pero dapat hindi masyado matagal yung respond kasi sabi nga ni Posh "e kung talagang mahal nyo naman ang isat isa db bakit nyo pa papahirapan sarili nyo.."... and if you don't like the guy wag ng paaasahin pa... sayang yung effort and money... heheh para FAIR lang!
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Post by irresistible on Mar 23, 2004 4:27:25 GMT -5
i cannot speak in behalf of those "pakipots" or "torpedoes" hehe..! but since you said the word "fair", dpat lang tlg na both guys & gals be fair with each other.. may tanong lang ako, bakit kaya naging tradition na din ung pagtatanong ng mga guys na, "pwede bang manligaw?". wla lang. i dunno but i think it sucks. |
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Post by dobby on Mar 23, 2004 20:06:51 GMT -5
i think kya sila ask nun for formality lang bcoz para alam na nun gerl na seryoso na nga sya at hindi na lng nagpapacute or nagpapahaging lang... pero ur ryt it sucks! totally direct question na hindi naman dapat tinanong na bcoz mararamdaman nyo naman kung nanliligaw na yung guy sayo or you are super special sa guy bcoz sabi nga Posh "pero un lng ang problema minsan.. mas sweet and mas nafifeel ng girls n super duper extra special sla pag nagliligawan p lng.. pero pag kau na.. sweet n lng and special ka na lng.."
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Post by Weird_O on Mar 23, 2004 22:30:10 GMT -5
i cannot speak in behalf of those "pakipots" or "torpedoes" hehe..! but since you said the word "fair", dpat lang tlg na both guys & gals be fair with each other.. may tanong lang ako, bakit kaya naging tradition na din ung pagtatanong ng mga guys na, "pwede bang manligaw?". wla lang. i dunno but i think it sucks. I think it has got something to do with the phrase do you like me too? Can I hang around with you? the phrase doesn't mean much in itself, although it was one of the least thing you could say to a "refined" and "cultured" or to put it bluntly hinde jologs, it was akin to asking do you approve if I hang around with you, or be friends with you with the intent of being your partner. The meaning is deep seated in the recesses of the subconscious mind to ask permission and to gauge whether the girl likes to be courted too. If she says yes, she's fair game but If she says no... you can only have two option, either she's playing hard or she really doesn't want anything to do with you, in that case you better scoot out and stalk someone else... ;D Siguro it has something to do with how you deliver it. Pero its moot and academic na din kung andun ka na nga with all your intent and purposes e nanliligaw ka na, tapos tatanong ka pa kung pede ka manligaw e... parang redundant nga... pero, it has something to do with gauging what the person feel about you without the sophistication of being able to ask it in a manner to which it was either romantic or overly corny... so guys would rather take the lesser course and maybe effective approach of putting a girl into a tight spot called... puwede ba manligaw? ;D |
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Post by tep on Mar 23, 2004 22:41:46 GMT -5
I think it has got something to do with the phrase do you like me too? Can I hang around with you? If she says yes, she's fair game but If she says no... you can only have two option, either she's playing hard or she really doesn't want anything to do with you, in that case you better scoot out and stalk someone else... ;D parang d ko gusto toh.... if the gerl says "no"... maniwala ka NO talaga yun hindi sya nagpapahard to get lng coz kung papahard to get lang yun ang answer nun " huh? eh... ok ka lng?!... seryoso ka ba dyan!?... kaw bahala!" |
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